I am the Author Goddess, therefore, I rule the universes that I’ve created. The characters are my minions. They exist to do my bidding.
I tell myself this all the time. And it’s true. Sort of. I am the creator of their world. Sometimes benevolent, sometimes a dictator.
Writers all do this. We fabricate new worlds with new rules. Even if it’s the “here and now” world, we still add our own spin to it. We make the facts fit the story as we need to tell it. We ask our characters to do things normal people often can’t or won’t do. And most of the time, the characters go along for the happy (or miserable) journey.
Occasionally, they resist or flat-out refuse. They stamp their feet and demand to go in a different direction.
A rebellion in my carefully crafted plans. How dare they? I’m the Author Goddess. They must do my bidding.
Sure, you can ignore your characters and force them to follow your “master plan”. But, just like in real life, it’s not right to make someone do something they don’t want to (making the kids clean up after themselves doesn’t count). When in this situation, instead of indignation, try going along for the ride.
Let the character take you on the journey they want to go on. Travel their path and see it to the end. They could surprise you and even open the story up in ways you never imagined.